My Bipolar Journey

This part of my story is the saddest of them all. My mother was an incredible human being. She chose to stay home and raise her kids. She always put family first. During the manic episode of 2023, I went to see my mother later in the evening but she didn’t answer the door. I called the police to do a wellness check and they broke in and scared the living daylights out of her. My sister called the police and I had to appear in court as she exaggerated the story. My lawyer told me that I had to sign an 8-10 in front of a judge and stay away for a year. Devastating. I respected the court ruling and when the year was over, I wanted to see her ASAP. However my sister, who I consider to be evil, had sold the family home and moved my mother into a senior residence, unbeknownst to me. We also managed to convince my mother to give her all the proceeds from the house. So I found out where she was but every time I called or visited, she was somehow not available. How ironic. My sister teamed up with the residence to block me from seeing my mother. Cruel. My mother was my best friend. And several months later, I found out that my mother had passed away but the covert operation continued and I couldn’t find out about the burial and placement. Imagine being so callous that you block your brother from seeing his mother in the last 2 years of her life. Disgusting. Despicable.  Although I had a ceremony to celebrate my mothers life, I was not able to grieve. Blood is not always thicker than water. What my sister did is called elder abuse. A sibling blocking access to a parent is often a form of elder abuse (isolation) or a red flag for financial exploitation. Even with power of attorney, siblings generally cannot legally ban family members from visiting if the parent wishes to see them. I never understood the concept of hate until this happened. My sister made arbitrary decions while I was suffering from a mental illness spending time in jail and in the hospital. I renounce my sister and whe will never be a part of my life. I know that forgiveness is important but in this case it will never happen. I am looking into hiring a criminal lawyer and press charges against her for elder abuse. She is the worst type of human being that there is in the world. I can never get this time back. And she coerced my mother and is receiving 85% of the estate. I sincerely hope that she pays for her actions. Karma is a bitch.